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Tuesday 8 November 2016

How to cope when a relationship doesn't work out.

In movies relationships is mostly about finding that one. But life isn't a romantic fairy tale. In real life its about keeping things good between both parties. And as bad as it is. Sometimes things don't work out. So what do you do when you find yourself in this scenario? Fact is that no one wants it. But almost everyone deals with it at some point in their lives.


There is a few options. Its not easy to love someone that doesn't feel the same. Cant force anyone to love you. If it was real you wouldn't have to fight for the affection you need. So how do you cope?Give yourself time to adjust. Feelings should be handled with care. If that person was important in your life. It will take time to deal with things. But you can and will get through it.

Spend time with friends and family. Don't be alone. The times you are alone that is when your mind will wander. Don't sit around and do nothing. Your mind will go back to the person. Stay busy. Start a new hobby. Pamper yourself. Yes, When last did you do something that is just done for you? Can be a relaxing bath. Or go shopping. Go for a pamper session at a spa. 

Or if you are a man. Do something that makes you feel good, important and needed. What ever you do. Don't sit around doing nothing. You need your mind busy and occupied. As time goes on. You will find that you think less of that person. Time does heal wounds. But don't feed the wounds you want to heal. Stay focused on other things. Things may have ended or wasn't meant to be. Still it wasn't a waste of time. You learn't something in the experience. Can be something you learn't about you. Or some trait you find important and needed in a relationship. And please whatever you do. Don't just go for the next person if you know you aren't ready. Many do that. But end up feeling much more miserable. No one should be a replacement. Not even you.

If you are suffering from a broken heart. Give it time. Time does help. Believe me when I say many go through it and find their happiness again. You will discover that too. Maybe rediscover yourself. I really hope this article helped you if you are going through a broken relationship

If you have any questions or queries. Feel free to contact us or comment below. Please share so others who are going through it can know how to handle it. 

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