You know this woman. You know everything about her. Want to make sure she likes you. But how do you get her to like you? Confidence is very important. It is very easy to fall in the friend zone if you are not confident. If you are needy, insecure and lack confidence. You will stay in the friend zone and be excluded from the boyfriend potential. So you end up with lots of female friends that they can talk to about their boyfriend. Crying their eyes out. You just sit there handing them a box of tissues.
You have to show her that you live your own life. Now don't be confused. Be there for her. But not all the time. Let her know you are a part of her life. But the idea is too build attraction between you. If she gets too comfortable. She will view you as a friend. And then you are stuck in the friend zone. She has to be attracted to you before being comfortable with you. Obviously personal grooming is important. So give attention to that. But what you must remember is that you have attraction. You want her attracted to you. But if that is on your mind. She will catch on quickly and she will be turned off. Have fun. be cool. be comfortable. When you are together it isn't a good idea to use cologne that is overwhelming. So a milder and gentler cologne is better. Body wash or essential oil may be perfect. Or even shampoo that smells nice is a great idea. It is our senses that make us notice things and people. If you are overweight it gives the impression you wont be able to protect her. So hit the gym once or twice a week. You don't have to be someone like Jean Claude Van Damme or Arnold Schwarzenegger. Just need a toned body. Doing that will stir sexual desires and she will definitely notice you.
Now comes the part where you talk to her. Now that can be a little tricky. because it should be a conversation between you both. You don't want to be too quiet. But its not good to just ramble on. She wont care to take part in the conversation. As she doesn't seem needed to be a part of it. (Can talk about something funny, or your childhood. Things you have in common.But remember the conversations to avoid. Relationships, health, money, family issues and obviously sex)
After you two had a nice conversation. You want her number. Right after a topic. Tell her you have to be somewhere. Look at her apologetic. Ask her phone number. That will show you are really interested in her. Or if she doesn't want to share that. Ask for an email address or what ever social network she uses. But remember to share your details with her too. But remember at all times to be confident. Not cocky or even nervous. it gives the impression of a man. So how do you do that? Answer questions solidly. Also look in her eyes when you answer her. Flirt with her because it keeps you out of the friend zone. Compliment her on her appearance. Smile at her. Watch how she reacts on your comments. But no sexual comments. Big turnoff. Stay cool calm and collected.
Remember she may be nervous as well. So if you did make a bad joke chances are it will be overlooked. Compliment her. But remember to focus on a different thing each time or she will lose interest in how beautiful she is Because you say it so often. Watch where you touch. Remember every woman is different. Safe areas would be arms hands or shoulders. If you get the feeling that the feeling is mutual. Make a joke with a double meaning. See how she behaves. Does she smile or respond with disapproval?
By now she should be interested in you. So ask her out on a date. But remember to make her feel special. She should be the center of your world. It would be a good time to confide in her. Remember that chivalry isnt dead. Give her flowers. Or her favorite treat. If its cold give her your jacket. Open the car door. It is about how special you make her feel.
I remember someone once asked me what to do. He liked this woman. But he was nervous. I gave him this advice. Its about how you make her feel. We always remember how people make us feel. Dress up. Just nice looking because its shows you respect her. You go on a date bring her flowers. Try to find out what her favorite flowers is. She will appreciate that gesture. But remember at all times make her feel important. He went on a date with her. During the date he contacted me to say it is going great. I told him I am happy, Because I knew he was very nervous. All the concerns on his mind. What to wear? What to do? How to behave. But I told him it is her time now. We can talk later. Focus on her. So their relationship grew stronger. So yes it is possible. It can happen for you too. Just remember these things. Confidence is key. Be comfortable. Stay out of the friend zone. Make her feel special. Compliment her.
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