The known gray area in relationships.

I thought of many posts I could write. But after a discussion with someone. I decided on this. I am not going to sugarcoat this. It is very serious and no joke. There is no buts and absolutely no excuses for it. 

When is it acceptable to look past the gray area? But lets start with the known gray area. First tip. Image does explain it a little bit. What is the gray area? You like someone. But she is with someone else. Is it still acceptable to say you want her? Or even him. Wife or girlfriend, husband or boyfriend. Someone else's partner. Now there is the twist.

How will you interfering make things any better? How is that good, caring or respectful? When a marriage gets a third person. Or even a relationship.  It always has very bad consequences. I saw posts of how can you get another man's girl or to take another woman's man. But I am not going to write about that. That will not be posted on this site. Sorry you can find that elsewhere. Because life has no gray areas. Gray areas gives bad consequences. Cheat, betrayal, broken trust. To name a few. It hasn't got any excuses. Its faithful or unfaithful. Its commitment or lack thereof. But at no time is it an area where you can give other reasons than truth. It doesn't have excuses, So why create some? Or is that acceptable?

Respect that the person isn't single. But do people really listen? No she is married, but her husband treats her bad. If her marriage is bad. Be a friend. Do not overstep the boundaries that is there. Or you love her/him and need him/her? So what if the person isn't single. If you were the other party. How would you feel? Gray.. is it a good place to start? What about the trust that is lost? Still all fine? Broken promises? Very nice. As long as it isn't you.

No matter what. Let the couple resolve everything themselves. If things arent going well. Be a friend. It shows respect for the person. Dont jump at the chance to see what you can benefit if things arent going well. 

There is a saying that is known to some. The way you get a person. Is also the way you lose a person. Very rare that its different. There is no gray area. Because when you start to make excuses and give reasons. Its called cheating and betrayal. That hurt's another. Some innocent person that really doesn't deserve that.

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